Codechange: C++-ify lists for SaveLoad (#9323)

Basically, this changes "SaveLoad *" to either:
1) "SaveLoadTable" if a list of SaveLoads was meant
2) "SaveLoad &" if a single entry was meant

As added bonus, this removes SL_END / SLE_END / SLEG_END. This
also adds core/span.hpp, a "std::span"-lite.

Change: [Linkgraph] Pause the game when linkgraph jobs lag (#6470)

Check if the job is still running two date fract ticks before it is due
to join, and if so pause the game until its done.
When loading a game, check if the game would block immediately due to
a job which is scheduled to be joined within two date fract ticks,
and if so pause the game until its done.
This avoids the main thread being blocked on a thread join, which appears
to the user as if the game is unresponsive, as the UI does not repaint
and cannot be interacted with.
Show if pause is due to link graph job in status bar, update network
messages.
This does not apply for network clients.

Codechange: Replace custom thread code with C++11 thread objects.

We assume a conforming C++11 compiler environment that has a valid <thread>-header.
Failure to run a real thread is handled gracefully.