Fix #11016: Defer deletion of client and server game socket handlers

This fixes various use after free scenarios in error handling paths

Fix: Error logging in game and admin server HandlePacket

Don't invent a packet type in the log message if we can't/don't
read a packet type at all.
Fix packet type not being logged when appropriate.

Fix: crash when joining a server again after a TCP disconnect (#9453)

"my_client" wasn't always free'd when a game ended. "my_client"
keeps a reference inside the PT_NCLIENT pool. The rest of the
code assumes that when you are not in a game, it can freely
reset this pool.
In result: several ways to trigger a use-after-free.

Change: reworked the debug levels for network facility (#9251)

It now follows very simple rules:
0 - Fatal, user should know about this
1 - Error, but we are recovering
2 - Warning, wrong but okay if you don't know
3 - Info, information you might care about
4 -
5 - Debug #1 - High level debug messages
6 - Debug #2 - Low level debug messages
7 - Trace information

Fix: [Network] clients leaving because of broken connections was not broadcasted (#9238)

The code mixed up "client has quit but we already told everyone"
with "client lost connection, handle this".

Split up those two signals:
- CLIENT_QUIT means we told everyone and the connection is now dead
- CONNECTION_LIST means we should tell everyone we lost a client

Remove: ENABLE_NETWORK switch

This switch has been a pain for years. Often disabling broke
compilation, as no developer compiles OpenTTD without, neither do
any of our official binaries.

Additionaly, it has grown so hugely in our codebase, that it
clearly shows that the current solution was a poor one. 350+
instances of "#ifdef ENABLE_NETWORK" were in the code, of which
only ~30 in the networking code itself. The rest were all around
the code to do the right thing, from GUI to NewGRF.

A more proper solution would be to stub all the functions, and
make sure the rest of the code can simply assume network is
available. This was also partially done, and most variables were
correct if networking was disabled. Despite that, often the #ifdefs
were still used.

With the recent removal of DOS, there is also no platform anymore
which we support where networking isn't working out-of-the-box.

All in all, it is time to remove the ENABLE_NETWORK switch. No
replacement is planned, but if you feel we really need this option,
we welcome any Pull Request which implements this in a way that
doesn't crawl through the code like this diff shows we used to.